One of the things that I have found in the last year that has totally turned the atmosphere of my home around is www.flylady.net. This was started by Marla Cilley and she teaches people that are SHEs (Sidetracked Home Executives) how to get control of the clutter and CHAOS- which to her and readily agreed to by many flybabies I think- is Can’t Have Anyone Over Syndrome. This has taken my house from total disaster area and hopeless dispare when I looked at it to not only livable but a lot of the time (not always) being company ready. This is not impossible, but I know what you are thinking if you are like me. Only other people can get that to happen. I’m here to tell you that the FlyLady is something that slowly teaches you how to build habits that help you live your life in a more peaceful way. Go check her and the flycrew out at www.flylady.net and don’t forget to join the yahoo group as well. It really does help.